We have officially departed the Keys and are now making our way to Fort Lauderdale.  As we cruised away from the Keys, feelings of sadness and anxiousness creeped up on us.  We spent the last two months in the the Keys and in a way it started to feel like home due to the familiarity and it was sad leaving, especially since we are very uncertain of the future cruising grounds.  

We were moored in Boot Key Harbor the majority of the time in the Keys and were getting accustomed to the day to day life of the beach, playground, library, parks, exploring and boat repairs.  Boot Key Harbor is like grand central station for cruisers with all the resources that a cruiser needs, making it very easy on you to delay your departure!  We had some memorable experiences during our time in the Keys….here are just a few.


At the beginning of our time, we had a visit from the grandparents.  We spent some time off the boat and with them at Tranquility Bay Resort in Marathon which was beautiful and relaxing.  The pools, sand, tiki bar, and wonderful time spent with family was so nice, not to mention the free laundry and hot showers!  We also were able to watch Clemson win the National Championship during this time and have since added a Clemson National Championship flag to our boat.

Thanks to a wonderful Christmas present from Uncle Chris and Aunt Rachel, we were able to visit the Dolphin Research Center.  Bryan and I visited many years ago and swam with the dolphins (a very cool experience!) and it was fun to bring the girls back to see the dolphins and sea lions.  They also had a splash zone which was a hit with the girls!

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Avery and I visited the Turtle Hospital in Marathon with a homeschooling group.  This was a neat experience to learn about how they rehabilitate the turtles and then release them when they are better.  It was also another good lesson on littering and how trash hurts and can kill the turtles.   This was extra special for both Avery and I because it was just the two of us….something that does not happen that much.


After advice from a number of people about the anchorage and mooring field, we decided to rent a car and drive to Key West for the day. We visited the Shipwrecker Museum, Eco-Discovery Center, Mallory Square for fire jugglers and finally made it back to our favorite restaurant, Blue Heaven.  The food was just as good as it was 7 years ago when ate here.  The girls danced in the sand to the band and we shared the best key lime pie I have ever eaten!!!

We had the surprise opportunity to meet back up with Jim and Debbie, who helped us in Socastee, South Carolina after hurricane Matthew swept through.  You can read about that story here.  They were vacationing in the Keys and called us and we were able to have lunch with them.  They are such kind and caring people….one of the best parts of cruising is the people you meet and the seemingly random relationships that are formed.


After leaving Boot Key Harbor, we anchored off of Bahia Honda State Park for four days and meet up with some new friends who were also cruising with their two kids ages 2 and 1.  This was truly one of the most idyllic times we had in the Keys…..the sunsets, snorkeling, beaches, wildlife and adult conversations while the kids played was soooo relaxing and nice.  Bryan caught his first lobster and all four of us had a surf and turf meal with evening on the boat.  The kids were fascinated by catching snails on the sea wall at the park and having a close encounter with a manatee.


We celebrated Avery’s Birthday on the last day we were in the Keys while anchored off of Rodriguez Key near Key Largo.  I will admit, I was feeling guilty that we did not have a “party” planned like in years past and it was just the four of us.  Avery wanted chicken wings for her birthday meal, so we were lucky to be able to dingy up to a nice open air restaurant where she got her chicken wings, a Shirley temple, and brownie cake, as well as a kite and scooter.  It was all very low key, but at the end of the day, she surprised me with a sweet note (with her Daddy’s help) that made my heart melt even more for my sweet and thoughtful girl.


We also started our bracelet making endeavor called Blessing Bracelets while in the Keys.  We have sent over 30 bracelets out to South Carolina, New York, Kentucky, Georgia, Florida, North Carolina, Tennessee, and Montana!!  You can read more about them here and let me know if you would like one or if you would like me to send one to someone you know.

Our sights our now set on the Bahamas and it is overwhelming the amount the preparation that we need to do.  I have started a working document of all the different information we need to do or know….medical, documentation, spare parts, provisioning, communication, etc.  We are waiting out some weather in Miami and hope to be in Fort Lauderdale by the end of the week to seriously start our Bahamas prep.  So I guess we are now officially Bahamas Bound!


As we prepare to depart Boot Key Harbor, we are wrapping up our “100 Acts of Kindness Challenge” tomorrow and it has been a great experience for our family.  This project was created by Megan at Coffee Cups and Crayons and Kristina at Toddler Approved and challenged families, classes, or anyone, for that matter, to track 100 Acts of Kindness from January 16th through February 14th.   They both have so many different ideas on their websites.  I especially like their recent post about Little Loving Hands and I hope we can try it out when we are land based again. Every month you are sent a box of crafts to do with your child and the money goes to different causes (what an awesome birthday present!)  

We were originally tracking our acts of kindness with a paper chain, but the chain got be be a little too much in our in our little boat home so we had to take it down, plus we tried to make kindness just part of life.

The definition of an act of kindness does not really need to include money and it could be simple like smiling at someone or helping out your sister!  You never know what little actions could do to brighten up someone else’s day  We did lots of different “acts” like putting change in the vending machines, delivering crayons and coloring books to the hospital waiting room, leaving wipes and a note of inspiration at the changing station in restrooms, dropping off treats to the policeman and bags of goodies for the homeless.  As I have mentioned before, teaching the girls the importance of character is one of our biggest tasks as parents.  I believe it has taught me and the girls that we don’t need to track our acts of kindness but to make them part of everyday life.


So the timing of the Oriental Trading Brand Ambassador program was perfect to jump start a new venture into kindness for our little crew on All In. This all takes the form of bracelets.  We are starting a new mission as we sail….making Blessing Bracelets.

Since everyday is not promised to you, it is important to find happiness in the small things that make up life….and learning that everyday is a blessing if you are breathing.  When my mom was sick and fighting her last months with cancer, I remember receiving a knitted shawl/blanket….I believe it was called a blessing blanket.  It made me feel comforted that someone was thinking of my family during our difficult time.  Around this same time, my mother received a bracelet with a scripture from a friend who was also fighting cancer.  She religiously wore this bracelet referring to it often for strength and courage.  I decided that combining the two ideas into “blessing bracelets” may bring a little happiness to others who are either dealing with a difficult time or situation or just need a little cheer from time to time (don’t we all!!)


Each bracelet is made by either myself, Avery or Leslie and every bracelet is unique with different patterns and/or charms.  I’ve been impressed how focused the girl are at stringing the beads and excited at the end product.  I especially love how Leslie sticks out her tongue when she is really focusing…..I trait she has inherited from her Papa.


Do you know of someone that could use a little inspiration or a little cheer? Let us know and we can send a bracelet their way!  Just fill out the contact form with their name and mailing address.  We have already made a first “batch” of bracelets and are now expanding our bracelet making materials so hopefully we can get more creative as we gain more experience!!  If you would like to donate a couple bucks for shipping, it would be appreciated but not necessary……there is a donate button below on the right sidebar.

Thanks so much to Oriental Trading for inspiring us to begin making blessing bracelets and for the initial supplies to start this fun project.  You can check out the materials we used here.  They have hundreds of different bracelet making materials from beads, charms, tools, and kits.  Not to mention the thousands of other craft materials they produce….it can be overwhelming all the different options and materials to choose from!!

“Things in life will not bring you happiness but giving to others and making the world a happier place because of your acts will make you happier”.


Disclaimer: Oriental Trading sent us the supplies to make the bracelets.  All opinions are our own.


Living in a small space with a three and four year old can be is CRAZY most of the time.  Since adding our two precious girls to our life, I feel I have always been “treading water” to keep up with them and all their energy.   When living our land-based life with full time jobs, it was difficult and exhausting doing the daily schedule of getting everyone out the door in the morning, heading to work, and then the evening of dinner, bath, and bedtime…..especially when being woken up multiple times during the night between one girl or another.   But this is motherhood and all mothers do what they have to do and find their inner strength to push on and enjoy the little moments that are so fleeting.  While this daily rush has changed since living on the boat, the fact that we have two little girls that depend on us for most of everything has not.  Plus, we literally stopped living one life, and started living a completely different life which has taken time for all of us to adjust.  And then add in the uncertainty we have with our plans for our next steps and sometimes I feel myself unraveling.  

While we may not be “working” in the traditional since of the word, every day is hard work when raising small kids, especially in a small space on a boat.  Daily chores such as dishes, laundry, and cooking take on a whole different meaning when living on the boat…..everything takes longer and more effort.  If you are interested in what exactly this looks like take a look at Around ‘n Circles post on Effort.  Michelle and her family are our neighbors in the mooring field in Marathon and she could not have described this part of the cruising lifestyle more perfectly!!  This “effort” may not really be an issue if you are by yourself, but when touting around two little ones with you, it can get a little tricky at times.  I guess I’m still trying to figure out life on a boat and at the same time, how to be good mother to my kids.  

The other day a man saw me and the girls when the girls were in a “happy” mood and asked “is it hard work raising little kids on a boat?  It looks like fun….I was thinking about trying it.”  Ha… it hard work????  Trying it out?? Seriously?  My head began to spin with the absurdity of the question and then of all the meltdown and tears and sighs that are heard daily on our boat.  It then got me thinking about the pictures that we post…..while the girls and even us may look happy in the pictures (how often to people take pictures of their children in meltdown mode), it can be rather deceiving.  


We have tears, meltdowns, fights, yelling, tantrums……DAILY.  There are days it makes me question my abilities as a mother and our choice to live on a boat.  At the end of these days when the girls are asleep and I have time to reflect, I always come to the same conclusion….they are 3 and 4 years old, it is hard work raising kids either on land in a house or in a boat on water AND tomorrow is another day….try something different.  In my previous life working in schools, I would frequently recommend this same path of thinking.  “Is what you are doing working?  If not, then try something different.”  Such simple logic, yet sometimes hard to do.
So, I am trying something different pretty much daily to alleviate screaming and tantrums and to attempt to keep our space organized.  Toys and clothes and crafts make their way out of their spaces and in a matter of minutes the entire living space of our boat is turned upside down…leaving not even a place to sit down….sometimes this stuff starts flowing into the cockpit as well.  This can be rather stressful when there is little space to escape chaos.  I am constantly learning and re-adjusting not only the actual “things” in our home, but also my own expectations of myself and my kids.  

Here are some of our recent re-adjustments on the boat and small successes…..

Toy Storage

We don’t have too many toys (we just do not have the room) and I am constantly trying to find ways to store the one we we do have.  We have some storage below the girls’ bed that I store books and some toys like magna-tiles in hanging bags and we have a complete cabinet for crafts, but other toys get scattered around, so we organized the storage yet again.  Stuffed animals are hung on one wall with some pictures and all other toys go in a container behind the curtain.  The girls helped me with organizing everything, so hopefully the order will last longer than a day.

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Hands On Learning

I’m constantly switching up how we learn.   Recently, I took the flashcards to the beach and we played “Sand Castle Smash”.  Once Leslie correctly identified the letter and Avery correctly spelled the word, then they could “smash” the sand castle.  Avery lost interest pretty quickly, but Leslie REALLY enjoyed this activity.

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The girls paint and draw A LOT and I never know what to do with all their artwork.  Some of it is sent to family and friends and I recently got some frames for other pictures to be hung on the wall.  Here are our recent artwork editions….they seem to be doing some more abstract painting!!


Thankful Book

In the beginning of the year as an effort for our family to share what we were thankful each day, I started a “Thankful Book”.  While the intention was for us to do this each night, the reality is we do it when we can which is about three or so times a week.  The things that come out of the girls’ mouths is both hilarious and heartwarming and has brought me to tears in the past.  I hope to be able to look back on this book one day with very fond memories.


Hoping in the next blog post, we will be able to share where we will be headed next….it is still up in the air but we know we will be on the move again soon!



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Since beginning our cruising life seven months ago (I can’t believe it has already been 7 months), we have yet to stay in a stationary position while continuing to live aboard for more than a few days.  While the boat underwent the rudder replacement in Southport, we left on a road trip and when we were back in Beaufort in November, we spent many nights on land with family and friends.  Since arriving to Marathon, we have been off the boat for a couple nights.  We were fortunate to have a wonderful visit from grandparents a few days after we arrived and stayed at Tranquility Bay Resort with them.  We swam in the pool, sipped cocktails at the Tiki Bar, watched Clemson win the National Championship and relaxed!!  It was such a nice time.


Now we are settling into a liveaboard life in a stationary location for a little while which is a nice change of pace from constantly moving. When we arrived to Boot Key Harbor in Marathon, we put our name on a waiting list for a mooring ball and just received our ball (A-17) a couple days ago (just in time for the 50 mph winds we had last night!!)  Boot Key Harbor is set up with all the amenities that cruisers need and want….it is sort of like a mini retirement community in a way with all the activities going on.  Every morning at 9, you can tune into the cruisers net and learn about activities for the day or week, as well as get help if you need something or try to sell/but boat items.  They even have a community garden that you can pick herbs and veggies from…..Avery picked a keylime the other day which later garnished our beers!!

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So what do we do all day?

Our pace of life has slowed down significantly…..possibly boring to some people and it has taken me a little while to adjust since my mind has a difficult time slowing down.  We do the typical “chores” of laundry, showers, taking out trash, filling up water, washing dishes, and provisioning.  The playground is next door to the marina at the community park, so we make it there pretty much daily and the library is also within walking distance.  Sombrero Beach is just a dinghy ride away, so we spend afternoons at the beach.  


I have been doing some “boat school” with the girls and we are trying to learn some Spanish phrases, as well as continuing basic literacy and math activities.  Of course, we continue crafting and painting and joined in on a 100 Acts of Kindness Challenge that end on February 14th.  We are tracking our acts of kindness with a paper linked chain which “decorates” the boat!  


We have been doing some boat projects which have taken up some time.  Our Tank Tender system is now installed, so we know how much fuel is in the gas tank and water in the water tank by looking at a gauge at the navigation station.  This project required the boat getting ripped apart to install the lines.  Our next project will be insulating the refrigerator.


In the evenings, Avery enjoys swinging in the bosun chair…..Leslie is still not sure about how she feels about it.  Bryan has been entertaining us with playing the guitar and we read lots of books.
The cruisers meet for a Sunday brunch that was delicious last week and I go to yoga three times a week in the community park.  Bryan wants to play in the softball league but he is still tending to his herniated disc.  The community park hosts lots of family friendly events like the Celtic festival, Family Fun Fest, Movie in the Park, etc. and there is a homeschool PE group that meets on Tuesdays.  There many other cruising families here…our mooring ball is actually between two other families!!!  


We have lots of other activities that we plan doing soon such as the Dolphin Research Center (thanks Rachel and Chris for the membership!!), lobster diving, Pigeon Key, and Crane Point Park before we head on to our next destination (still to be determined).

So that is about it….no unexpected adventures….life is good (except when the girls are whining or fighting!)



As I have mentioned in previous posts, we LOVE arts and crafts on our boat. Art supplies take up a pretty large portion of our SMALL storage space, but I believe it is worth it because they provide entertainment and learning for the girls.  Recently, the Pencil Grip Company asked our crew to do a review on one of their new products, Thin Stix.   These are an upgrade to their previous product called Kwik Stix, which I also reviewed here.  They are solid tempera paints that are used like a pen, produce bold colors, and dry quickly.


There are a number of reasons that we like these paints and I find them a perfect alternative to paint, which can get pretty messy, especially when living in a small space on a sailboat that has pretty constant swaying when moving.  These paints are actually more like a marker in the way that you grip them so you can create more fine details in your pictures and they dry in 90 seconds.  This is such an added bonus since small hands want to handle their pictures very soon after they make them.  Now they only have to wait for a minute and half before heading out to hang them in their cabin!


Not only are they easy to use, but they also can be stored away easily.  We store many of our crafts and art supplies in pencil cases and these fit nicely into one.  We just painted on paper this week, but they can also be used on other surfaces such as cardboard or wood.  And they are non-toxic so perfectly safe for little ones!


The girls really enjoyed using them and liked how smoothly they slide over the paper.  Plus, you can mix the colors by sliding them over each other and they blend very nicely.  And I really liked that they were mess-free and clean up is very easy…just pop the top back on!



The crew of All In definitely recommends Thin Stix, especially to other boating families, because of the easy clean up, easy storage in small spaces, and the vibrant colors.  Just remember to wear old clothes or an apron because they are not washable as with most paints.  Thin Stix are available in 6, 12, and 24 packs of assorted, neon, and metalix colors.


If you would like to get a FREE set of Thin Stix to try out, enter the raffle below.  An entry will be drawn at random on 1/20/2017!!!


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